כי ללא מידה מסוימת של ענווה לא יוכל אף אלכוהוליסט להישאר מפוכח כלל… בלעדיה לא יוכלו לחיות למען מטרה מועילה באמת, ובשעת צרה לא יוכלו לגייס את האמונה הדרושה להתמודדות עם כל מצב חירום שהוא.
TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 70
Why do I balk at the word "humility"? I am not humbling myself toward other people, but toward God, as I understand Him. Humility means "to show submissive respect," and by being humble I realize I am not the center of the universe. When I was drinking, I was consumed by pride and self-centeredness. I felt the entire world revolved around me, that I was master of my destiny. Humility enables me to depend more on God to help me overcome obstacles, to help me with my own imperfections, so that I may grow spiritually. I must solve more difficult problems to increase my proficiency and, as I encounter life's stumbling blocks, I must learn to overcome them through God's help. Daily communion with God demonstrates my humility and provides me with the realization that an entity more powerful than I is willing to help me if I cease trying to play God myself.